DISCIPLINE IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS. 

For success, discipline is must. Family is the first place where discipline can be learnt.  Without discipline all the constructive activities in the society would come to an end. We need discipline in every walk of our life. As a player you need discipline to accept all the rules and obey the captain. How do you play football? You stop when the whistle stops you, you start when the whistle allows you. You have to obey the refree.  Can you play football if you do not care for the whistle? No games or sports can be played if you do not obey rules. 

At home you cannot do what you like to, the whole family has to listen to the head of the family. A home without discipline is like a wild forest and not like a green garden. 

It is always said, discipline leads to success and that’s so true. Every person with discipline has successed in life.Discipline leads to overcome one’s own weaknesses.

I conclude by telling that  Discipline is the backbone of a  character. Without disci­pline, nothing great can be achieved in life. A person is nor­mally found to be disciplined from his childhood. It is a habit that one acquires from his environments, or by way of training. A child must be trained to observe discipline from his early years. 

-GARGI

It’s not how much we have, but how much we can enjoy that makes happiness.

Why can’t we stay happy in what we have? Why do we always have to be thinking about what we don’t have? Why do we always keep comparing ourselves with others? Before being so greedy about buying something what others have; why can’t we just think of the people who even don’t have what we have? We keep on expecting more and more but the people who have nothing they celebrate happiness in every small thing.   I believe the real reason why we can’t stay happy is that we don’t know how to stay happy.  It’s not just that we haven’t been taught how to be happy it’s because we have actually been conditioned to stay unhappy, we live in a world in which multi-billion dollar corporations put all their creativity and resources into convincing us we won’t be happy until we buy their latest product. If a person has the latest products that doesen’t mean he is rich, but a person who is pure by heart is meant to be rich. Money can’t buy you happiness but happiness can buy you everything. We can never be happy if we look at the people who are  higher than us, look at the people below you, you’ll have a hope 🙂 

Stay happy with what you have, don’t be worried about what you don’t have. Time sets everything right. A person who sells newspapers can become a billionaire,  we just have to stop expecting more instead start working hard. People will keep passing comments, focus on your goal and we can do wonders.  Happiness is in our hands, we can’t let go it easily. If you forget how to stay happy then the world will keep on and on trying to make you sad. It’s not how much we have, but how much we can enjoy that makes happiness.

 -Gargi

Honesty is the best policy.


Being honest means choosing not to lie, steal, cheat, or deceive in any way. When we are honest, we build strength of character that will allow us to be great service to God and to others. We are blessed with peace of mind and self-respect and will be trusted by the lord and others.It has often been said that honesty is the best policy why is it that? Since we’re constantly bombarded by lies and misdirection from people we’re supposed to look up to, why is it important for us to stop lying?

Have you ever said a lie and then forgotten the details about it? Surely you must have forgotten, and to hide to what you have said you have to add more a bit of lie. But when you are being honest, no matter how many times they ask you about it you will confidently answer.No matter how badly you think someone will react when you tell them something, you can rest assured that they will be a thousand times more upset if (or rather, when) they find out that you’d lied to them.If someone finds out that you’ve lied to them, they will never be able to fully trust you again. Ever. Even if you spend the rest of your life being a complete paragon of honesty and integrity, the person you lied to will always wonder if you’re being dishonest on some level. You can be sincere to your very marrow, but they won’t ever have true faith in you again.  Honesty is important because it creates peace of mind and promotes relationships of trust. The benefits of honesty extend to personal health, relationships and society at large. The opposite, lying, leads to distrust, conflict, corruption and anxiety. I conclude by saying that honesty is the best policy and always try to be honest no matter what happens because once you have lied no one will again have trust in you. 

-Gargi Mustapure.

Work puts you on the path of heaven, work is heaven.

Basava was borin in Begawadi, a town of Hugund Taluk in Bagalkot ditrict. (Bijapur district of karnataka) in a strict family. 

Madras and Madalambe were parents of Basavanna, Madaras was a town president of Begawadi, he was a religous and a kind person engaged in Charity and was a Philapanthropist. 

He had a sister who was 12 years older than him. He was very attached to his sister, He grew in the company of his sister. Nagamma was not only his sister but his first Guru who always guided him. At the age of 14-16 she got married to Shivadev (Shiva Swamy).

When Basavanna was born he was without any moment, he did not cry even surprisingly godly saint Jatavedamuni (Eeshanya Guru) visited to Madras’s house. He wipped the face of the child with a cloth dipped in warm water, he applied bhasma on the forehead, tied Rudrakshi and Linga around his neck, Further the Guru pronounced Panchakshari Hymm in the ears of the baby and called Basava, “Come on”. Hearing the call, the baby was awakened, the baby moved sidewise, opened the eyes and smiled at the Parents and Guru. The parents of Basavanna jumped in joy and started to thank the Guru, they place the child at the feet of Guru and utter, ‘we dedicate the child to your grace.’ The child was named Basava as pronounced by the Guru. Madras performed Uupanayanam of Basavanna at the age of 8, Uupanayanam was done against the wish of Basavanna.

With Linga in his neck blessrd by the Guru at the time of his birth, he ran away to Begawadi, and joined the Gurukul at Kudala Sangam. He did not like to stay with people floating in the stagnant water of bling beliefs and immoral customs and had migratted to Sangamma. Basavanna spent about 10 years in the splendid company of the Guru and turned to be a matured man. When his parents had come to visit him, he refused to get back to Begawadi. Basavanna was soon married to Gangabike and Neelambike. He started his career as an accountant at Mangaladev in the court of Kalachuri King Bijala, When Bijala acquited the power at Basavakalyana by overpowering Tailapa. Basavanna also went to kalyana with his honesty, hardwork and visionary mission. Basava rose to the positipn of Prime Minister in the court of Kind Bijala, who ruled from 1162-1167 at Kalyana (Basavakalyana). There he established the Anubhava Mantapa, a spiritual parliment to openly discuss Lingayatism, which attracted many sainst from throught India. He believed in the principle of Kayakave Kailasa. (Work puts you on the path of heaven, work is heaven). It was this time that the Vachanas, were simple to understand poetic writings such as :-

*The power of knowledge destroys ignorance, The power of light dissipates darkness; The power of truth is foe of all untruth; The sharanas experience of god is the sole cruse of worldiness.*

-Lord Kudala Sangam.

Through his revolutionary ideas and actions against social evils, Basava stirred alot of controversy by allowing untouchables to have lunch with him and passing a marriage between a Bramhin woman and an Untouchable man. Basavnna left Kalyana in 1196 with heavy heart and marched towards Kudala Sangam. On the way he preached people about humanity, morality, honesty, equality, induviduality, simplicity and the diginity of labor. He came to Kudala Sangam on the call of his Guru. To his misfortune, his Guru was no more; he had already merged with Linga, he was very depressed by listening the news he had come to  Kudala  Sangam  without even telling his wives. 

After a few days he was again stunned on hearing the murder of Bijala wjo was his friend more than his brother-in-law. There was nobody around him to console. He couldn’t do anything. Pronouncing, ‘Sake Madai Thande Lokadetavaninnu. (Oh God, Please end my role in this world.) He sat for meditation rejecting food and water at the place of confluence of Krishna and Malaprabh rivers. He never got up again, he died🙏

Gargi Mustapure

A women is a strength.

A woman is like a tea bag; you never know how strong it is until it’s hot in water.
“Behind every successful man there is woman.” Not only in the case of a man but this saying stands in the functioning of the whole world. Women tend to be more group-oriented as their communication skills and emotional intelligence are found better.Still in many parts of India women face alot of social issues and problems all through the life which are big struggle for them right from begining of life. A boys birth is celebrated whereas a girls birth is not celebrated.Women are not given proper education, they are responsible for household works etc.Earlier women were facing problems like child marriage, sati pratha, parda pratha, restrictions to widdow remarriage, widows exploitation, devadasi system, etc. However, almost all the old traditional problems have been disappeared gradually from the society but given rise to other new issues. Women are continuously facing problems even after self confidence.Each and every women should be treated equally no matter how educated they are, they are unique in their own ways. No one can ever replace a women. She works throughout the day non-stop without asking for a pause. She serves everyone with love and affection till her last breath.She is a doctor at home. When everyone else looses the hope on you, she will have the strongest hope. She will encourage you, love you the same after knowing all the faults.
That’s the reason a women is considered a unique one .
I wish every lady a happy Women’s day😊💕
-Gargi
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A Family is an unique gift to one. 

*Why is a family so important in one’s life?*A family provides all members with security, identity and values regardless of age. When someone in the family feel unsafe, the rest will turn for a help. A family always guides, loves and supports in all times. No matter how badly they fight at the time when someone is trouble they forget everything and rush for help that’s the true love one gets from family. No one can ever give you so much of love which you get from family. Everyone will leave you at a point of life. When you are in need many will run away but family won’t. Spending time with family shows individuals the value of love, appreciation and open communication.

 One will forget all the stress, bad things happened through out the day and will feel fresh once he spends time with family.​

 Everyone in the family play a unique role. Starting from a father :-

A father is always a guiding hand. He will never guide you to the wrong path. He works hard throught the day to see everyone happy in the family after getting back home he never gets irritated by his family but feels happy spending a bit of time. He will have many up’s and downs in life but will never take a look down he’ll hope for something better and still work. A true love for a daughter and a superhero will be her dad first. ❤ An Inspiration for a son will be his dad. ❤ A true love a wife will get afer marriage is her husband. A dad plays a really important role and one should be happy and proud to have a dad ❤❤

Then is mother :-

She works 24 hours without telling anything. She never asks for a break but works on and on. A mom never eats anything herself but will keep it for her family thinking they will love it. She Cooks delicious food to see her family happy. She will be awake the whole night if one is sick at house hoping to see them recover early. She will love you at every moment of life no matter how bad the situation be.😍 She will support you in all your up’s and downs. She is the one who will have a hope on you when the whole world doesn’t that’s the reason a mom is really important in one’s life❤

 Then is a sister :-

Who is like a second mom. Sister is like a unique gift from god to one individual. One shares each and everything to his/ her sister without any fear.😍 A sisters relation will last long no matter where she is. She will always be connected throught out life. ❤

 Lastly a brother :-

He will be your side at all the times. He will never tell he loves you but will prove when time comes😍 He will suppot like a father, care like a mother and love like no one else can that’s the reason he’s an unique guy❤

I conclude by telling that everyone in the family are unique. They will be your all time supporters. Be proud😍👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

GARGI

New generation vs old generation.


*NEW GENERATION VS OLD GENERATION*There’s alot of difference in the new generation and the old generation am I right ? YEAH! They way we consolidate things is different from how our old generation used to sort out and live in the society. The most important difference between the new generation and the old generation :-

Firstlt |culture| Starting from music, cultural beliefs and customs our generation has changed rapidly. Before there would be no electronic gadgets and so everyone would get out playing, talking to each other face to face rathers on mobiles and the parents would leave them independent to work hard they would never spoon feed them and all the time they were made to understand that life does not owe them anything so they used to be attentive to ensure that they are always on the right track on the other hand our generation we depend upon on parents, we can easily give up if it requires any effort or concentration.  

After that is |Technology|

It has changed our society both positively and negatively . Science and technology has been virtually advanced and used to create various machines from vehicles, weapons, mobile phones, computers or any othet equipment that are designed using technology. Huge generation is depending on the internet for everything few are using in wisely whereas as few are not. Whereas compared to old generation technology was mot very familiarized as they had to find there own way by struggling hard. 

Then |Lifestyle|

In the old generation the parents were strict and used to punish the children for something bad they did and made sure the child didn’t repeat it again but our generation is very different compared to the old generation the parents are chilled and don’t scold them but once the child grows up it will become a problem for the parents to handle the children.

Lastly is |Media| 

Old generation had nothing to do with media because they only experienced real life happiness with no computer, phone or television then people were still in touch with each other and spending time with each other unlike new generation they keep in touch with relatives, loved ones using the internet they can get to know anyone’s life history by just searching for them on the internet. 
Lastly what I feel is old generation was better then new generation but if both generation gets combined life will be very different.

-Gargi